Part 4 - My Plan

How I Saved My Marriage?

When I am back home, believe it or not, I was not even desperate to pick the difficult dance back up. I just wanted to keep my serenity and I didn't want to take a step back.

I had a plan...

I called up my wife's friend. I talked to her. I wanted to know what is in my wives my heart. What is it that was making her to make the notorious decision.

I was suprised to know the reason... Freedom... She wants her freedom... She thinks that our marriage had tied her down. Our marriage had deprieved her from her live. She wanted to further her studies in Law. She wanted to be a great lawyer. She loves singing and playing violin. And, she wanted to make her album.

So... now i have to help her achieve her dream. I need to make her understand that she is still free to do what she wants, She can still achieve her dreams. She can still be a lawyer. She can still be a violinist. She dont need a divorce to fulfill this.

I secretly applied for her admission in Berkeley University. I was patiently waited for the reply.

Meanwhile, i tried to keep myself busy and positive. I read books that made me happy.

I also realized that there is a AR Rahman live concert in India. I was determined to get a VIP seat so that we can enjoy the concert from near. I called my friend from India who was working in SUN TV, to help me get the tickets. Once the ticket was confirmed, i get it mailed to me.

I was very excited about the concert. I order florist to send 100 roses to my house. Together with the roses, i slipped the concert ticket among the ticket.

The door bell rang and I was reading the newspaper. My wife opened the door to recieve the roses. She was surprised but when she saw the ticket, she just took it and left the ticket on the table. I was really, really dissappointed. I expected more reactions. I was more confused. She likes it or she doesn't likes it. I can understand her reaction. I grabbed the book to see if I was doing something wrong.

But, according to the Amy's book, I was sort of on the track, although my method and my tone were not as lighthearted, matter of fact, or open as the book said I should be. I remembered the road map and figured I should take a look at exactly what i should be doing. I read it again and again and again I was on track and this is what would be called my " opening move".

But, i was getting more and more tired of these game. But, I did not give up. I keep my mind positive. I was using auto suggestion and had full faith in my attempt that i will get back my wife. I dtated reading Napolean Hill to keep myself positive and keep my burning desire for my wife blazing hot.

I slept on the couch that night.

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